{"id":109980,"date":"2018-04-30T12:00:16","date_gmt":"2018-04-30T11:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=109980"},"modified":"2018-04-25T16:06:17","modified_gmt":"2018-04-25T15:06:17","slug":"words-can-save-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2018\/04\/words-can-save-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"Words Can Save Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><em>A Sufi Story by an Unknown Author<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>A group of frogs were walking through a forest. Suddenly, two of them fell into a hole. All the other frogs gathered around the hole and looked down over the edge.<\/p>\n<p>When they saw how deep it was, they told the unfortunate frogs, &#8220;You will never get out of here alive. Don&#8217;t even try. Just give up and die.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>One of the frogs tried a few times in vain to jump out, then gave up and lay on the ground. The other frog kept trying again and again, jumping as hard as he could.<\/p>\n<p>The crowd of frogs shouted to him, &#8220;Stop it! End the pain. You have no hope; you are as good as dead!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He jumped even harder and finally jumped out. When he got out, the other frogs asked him, &#8220;Why did you continue jumping? Didn&#8217;t you hear that we told you to stop?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The frog explained, &#8220;No, I am hard of hearing. I thought you were encouraging me the whole time!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A tongue is not a bone, but it can break bones. It has power over life and death. An encouraging word to those who are in trouble can help save them, whereas a destructive word can take away their hope and make them give up. Let us be careful in what we say and not discourage someone in difficult times.<\/p>\n<p>__________________________________________<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/dietrich-fischer.jpg\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-65349\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/dietrich-fischer-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><em>Dietrich Fischer (1941-2015) from M\u00fcnsingen, Switzerland, got a Licentiate in Mathematics from the University of Bern 1968 and his Ph.D. in Computer Science from New York University 1976. 1986-88 he was a MacArthur Fellow in International Peace and Security at Princeton University. He has taught mathematics, computer science, economics and peace studies at various universities and been a consultant to the United Nations. He was co-founder, with Johan Galtung, of the <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/\" >TRANSCEND Network for Peace, Development and Environment<\/a> <em>in 1993<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><em>Excerpted from Dietrich Fischer&#8217;s <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tup\/index.php?book=44\" >Stories to Inspire You<\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tup\/index.php?book=44\" > &#8211; TRANSCEND University Press-TUP<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A group of frogs were walking through a forest. Suddenly, two of them fell into a hole. All the other frogs gathered around the hole and looked down over the edge.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":65349,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[63],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-109980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirational"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=109980"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109980\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65349"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=109980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=109980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=109980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}