{"id":163058,"date":"2020-06-22T12:00:52","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T11:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=163058"},"modified":"2020-06-18T09:30:50","modified_gmt":"2020-06-18T08:30:50","slug":"gardening-and-the-secret-of-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2020\/06\/gardening-and-the-secret-of-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Gardening and the Secret of Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/braidingsweetgrass_kimmerer.jpg\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-163059\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/braidingsweetgrass_kimmerer-194x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"194\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/braidingsweetgrass_kimmerer-194x300.jpg 194w, https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/braidingsweetgrass_kimmerer.jpg 307w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 194px) 100vw, 194px\" \/><\/a>\u201cIt came to me while picking beans, the secret of happiness.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>\u201cThis is happiness,\u201d<\/em> Willa Cather\u2019s fictional narrator <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/08\/26\/willa-cather-my-antonia-happiness\/\" >gasps<\/a> as he sinks into his grandmother\u2019s garden, <em>\u201cto be dissolved into something complete and great.\u201d<\/em> A generation later, in a real-life counterpart, Virginia Woolf arrived at <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/09\/09\/virginia-woolf-cotton-wool-moments-of-being\/\" >the greatest epiphany of her life<\/a> \u2014 and to this day perhaps the finest definition of what it takes to be an artist \u2014 while contemplating the completeness and greatness abloom in the garden.<\/p>\n<p>Nearly a century later, botanist and nature writer <strong>Robin Wall Kimmerer<\/strong>, who has written beautifully about <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/05\/13\/gathering-moss-robin-wall-kimmerer\/\" >the art of attentiveness to life at all scales<\/a>, examines the revelations of the garden in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Braiding-Sweetgrass-Indigenous-Scientific-Knowledge\/dp\/1571313567\/?tag=braipick-20\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><em>Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.worldcat.org\/title\/braiding-sweetgrass-indigenous-wisdom-scientific-knowledge-and-the-teachings-of-plants\/oclc\/938182758&amp;referer=brief_results\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>) \u2014 an unusual and richly rewarding book blending botany, Native American mythology, natural history, and philosophy.<\/p>\n<p>In a particularly enchanting passage, Kimmerer, who fuses her scientific training with her Native American storytelling heritage, considers happiness as a sort of reciprocity between the Earth and the human spirit \u2014 a gladdening mutuality of affections and animacy:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It came to me while picking beans, the secret of happiness.<\/p>\n<p>I was hunting among the spiraling vines that envelop my teepees of pole beans, lifting the dark-green leaves to find handfuls of pods, long and green, firm and furred with tender fuzz. I snapped them off where they hung in slender twosomes, bit into one, and tasted nothing but August, distilled into pure, crisp beaniness\u2026 By the time I finished searching through just one trellis, my basket was full. To go and empty it in the kitchen, I stepped between heavy squash vines and around tomato plants fallen under the weight of their fruit. They sprawled at the feet of the sunflowers, whose heads bowed with the weight of maturing seeds.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/08\/10\/the-little-gardener-emily-hughes\/\" ><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.brainpickings.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/thelittlegardener_emilyhughes3.jpg\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Illustration by Emily Hughes from <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/08\/10\/the-little-gardener-emily-hughes\/\" ><em>Little Gardener<\/em><\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Mid-stride in the garden, Kimmerer notices the potato patch her daughters had left off harvesting that morning. She twines this communion with the land and the commitment of good parenthood in a beautiful meditation on what it means to care for, to be a steward of, to love \u2014 be it a child or Mother Earth:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>They complain about garden chores, as kids are supposed to do, but once they start they get caught up in the softness of the dirt and the smell of the day and it is hours later when they come back into the house. Seeds for this basket of beans were poked into the ground by their fingers back in May. Seeing them plant and harvest makes me feel like a good mother, teaching them how to provide for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>[\u2026]<\/p>\n<p>How do I show my girls I love them on a morning in June? I pick them wild strawberries. On a February afternoon we build snowmen and then sit by the fire. In March we make maple syrup. We pick violets in May and go swimming in July. On an August night we lay out blankets and watch meteor showers. In November, that great teacher the woodpile comes into our lives. That\u2019s just the beginning. How do we show our children our love? Each in our own way by a shower of gifts and a heavy rain of lessons.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it was the smell of ripe tomatoes, or the oriole singing, or that certain slant of light on a yellow afternoon and the beans hanging thick around me. It just came to me in a wash of happiness that made me laugh out loud, startling the chickadees who were picking at the sunflowers, raining black and white hulls on the ground. I knew it with a certainty as warm and clear as the September sunshine. The land loves us back. She loves us with beans and tomatoes, with roasting ears and blackberries and birdsongs. By a shower of gifts and a heavy rain of lessons. She provides for us and teaches us to provide for ourselves. That\u2019s what good mothers do.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I was reminded of this passage from the altogether bewitching <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Braiding-Sweetgrass-Indigenous-Scientific-Knowledge\/dp\/1571313567\/?tag=braipick-20\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><em>Braiding Sweetgrass<\/em><\/strong><\/a> by a mention in Kimmerer\u2019s terrific <a href=\"http:\/\/www.onbeing.org\/program\/robin-wall-kimmerer-the-intelligence-in-all-kinds-of-life\/8446\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>On Being<\/em> conversation<\/a> with Krista Tippett \u2014 listen and revel below:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Robin Wall Kimmerer \u2014 The Intelligence in All Kinds of Life by On Being Studios\" width=\"500\" height=\"400\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/w.soundcloud.com\/player\/?visual=true&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fapi.soundcloud.com%2Ftracks%2F248867866&#038;show_artwork=true&#038;maxheight=750&#038;maxwidth=500\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>[The] kind of deep attention that we pay as children is something that I cherish, that I think we all can cherish and reclaim \u2014 because attention is the doorway to gratitude, the doorway to wonder, the doorway to reciprocity. And it worries me greatly that today\u2019s children can recognize 100 corporate logos and fewer than 10 plants. That means they\u2019re not paying <em>attention<\/em>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement with Mary Oliver \u2014 another patron saint of listening and of the Earth \u2014 on <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/01\/20\/mary-oliver-molly-malone-cook-our-world\/\" >what it really means to pay attention<\/a>, then revisit Kimmerer\u2019s exquisite writings about <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/05\/13\/gathering-moss-robin-wall-kimmerer\/\" >the magic of moss<\/a> and <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2015\/07\/23\/robin-wall-kimmerer-gathering-moss-naming\/\" >how naming confers dignity upon existence<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>_______________________________________<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/maria-popova.gif\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-106597\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/maria-popova.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><\/em><em>Brain Pickings<\/em><em> is the brain child of Maria Popova, an interestingness hunter-gatherer and curious mind at large obsessed with combinatorial creativity who also writes for <\/em><em>Wired<\/em><em> UK and <\/em><em>The Atlantic<\/em><em>, among others, and is an MIT Futures of Entertainment Fellow. She has gotten occasional help from a handful of <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/index.php\/about\/authors\/\" >guest contributors<\/a>. Email: <a href=\"brainpicker@brainpickings.org\">brainpicker@brainpickings.org<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2016\/02\/29\/robin-wall-kimmerer-braiding-sweetgrass\/?mc_cid=71ad6dfb5d&amp;mc_eid=52f96bd8dd\" >Go to Original \u2013 brainpickings.org<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cIt came to me while picking beans, the secret of happiness.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":106597,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[63],"tags":[1177],"class_list":["post-163058","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirational","tag-inspirational"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163058","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=163058"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163058\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106597"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=163058"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=163058"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=163058"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}