{"id":180842,"date":"2021-03-15T12:00:15","date_gmt":"2021-03-15T12:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=180842"},"modified":"2021-03-13T06:18:29","modified_gmt":"2021-03-13T06:18:29","slug":"my-win-win-solution-for-prince-harry-and-the-royal-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2021\/03\/my-win-win-solution-for-prince-harry-and-the-royal-family\/","title":{"rendered":"My Win-Win Solution for Prince Harry and the Royal Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><em>11 Mar 2021 &#8211; <\/em>I recently told my son that he should be grateful that he was not born into the Royal Family.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p id=\"84d2\" class=\"hr hs ft ht b hu il hv hw hx im hy hz ia in ib ic id io ie if ig ip ih ii ik dh gp\" data-selectable-paragraph=\"\"><strong class=\"ht cu\">The Royal Double Bind<\/strong><\/p>\n<p id=\"4f35\" class=\"hr hs ft ht b hu il hv hw hx im hy hz ia in ib ic id io ie if ig ip ih ii ik dh gp\" data-selectable-paragraph=\"\">Being born into or marrying into a Royal Family thrusts one into a double bind. <strong class=\"ht cu\">Double bind theory, <\/strong>from my family therapy training in the 1970s, regards the dilemma of being confronted with conflicting, irreconcilable demands \u2014 one negating the other. Damned if you do, damned if you don\u2019t. One can neither resolve the dilemma nor opt out of the situation.<\/p>\n<p id=\"97bb\" class=\"hr hs ft ht b hu il hv hw hx im hy hz ia in ib ic id io ie if ig ip ih ii ik dh gp\" data-selectable-paragraph=\"\">Skill and creati<span id=\"rmm\">v<\/span>ity are required to transcend the double bind, both in family therapy and in the field of conflict transformation.<\/p>\n<p id=\"dc0e\" class=\"hr hs ft ht b hu il hv hw hx im hy hz ia in ib ic id io ie if ig ip ih ii ik dh gp\" data-selectable-paragraph=\"\"><strong class=\"ht cu\">Living in the Archetypal Realm<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p data-selectable-paragraph=\"\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/dianeperlman-24337.medium.com\/my-win-win-solution-for-prince-harry-and-the-royal-family-df886cd1ad80\" >TO CONTINUE READING Go to Original &#8211; medium.com<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><em>_____________________________________________<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/diane-perlman-e1612677245534.jpg\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-178851\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/diane-perlman-e1612677245534.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" \/><\/a><\/em><em>Diane Perlman, PhD\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0is a clinical and political psychologist, devoted to applying knowledge from psychology, conflict studies and social sciences to designing strategies and policies to reverse nuclear proliferation, to drastically reduce terrorism, reduce enmity, and to raise consciousness about nonviolent strategies for tension reduction and conflict transformation. She is a visiting scholar at the School for\u00a0<\/em><em>Conflict Analysis and Resolution at George Mason University, is active in\u00a0Psychologists for Social Responsibility,<\/em>\u00a0<em>the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/\" >TRANSCEND Network for Peace Development Environment<\/a>,<\/em>\u00a0<em>and on the Global Council of Abolition 2000. Some of her writings can be found on her websites, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.consciouspolitics.org\/\" >www.consciouspolitics.org<\/a> \u00a0and \u00a0<\/em><em><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.SanityandSurvival.com\" >www.SanityandSurvival.com<\/a>.\u00a0Email: <a href=\"mailto:dianeperlman@gmail.com\">dianeperlman@gmail.com<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>11 Mar 2021 &#8211; Being born into or marrying into a Royal Family thrusts one into a double bind. Double bind theory regards the dilemma of being confronted with conflicting, irreconcilable demands \u2014 one negating the other. Damned if you do, damned if you don\u2019t. One can neither resolve the dilemma nor opt out of the situation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":178851,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[380],"class_list":["post-180842","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-transcend-members","tag-solutions"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/180842","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=180842"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/180842\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/178851"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=180842"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=180842"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=180842"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}