{"id":186160,"date":"2021-07-12T12:00:35","date_gmt":"2021-07-12T11:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=186160"},"modified":"2021-06-18T05:47:21","modified_gmt":"2021-06-18T04:47:21","slug":"three-poems-on-grief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2021\/07\/three-poems-on-grief\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Poems on Grief"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">I Measure Every Grief I Meet (1862)<\/h3>\n<p>With narrow, probing, Eyes \u2014<br \/>\nI wonder if It weighs like Mine \u2014<br \/>\nOr has an Easier size.<\/p>\n<p>I wonder if They bore it long \u2014<br \/>\nOr did it just begin \u2014<br \/>\nI could not tell the Date of Mine \u2014<br \/>\nIt feels so old a pain \u2014<\/p>\n<p>I wonder if it hurts to live \u2014<br \/>\nAnd if They have to try \u2014<br \/>\nAnd whether \u2014 could They choose between \u2014<br \/>\nIt would not be \u2014 to die \u2014<\/p>\n<p>I note that Some \u2014 gone patient long \u2014<br \/>\nAt length, renew their smile \u2014<br \/>\nAn imitation of a Light<br \/>\nThat has so little Oil \u2014<\/p>\n<p>I wonder if when Years have piled \u2014<br \/>\nSome Thousands \u2014 on the Harm \u2014<br \/>\nThat hurt them early \u2014 such a lapse<br \/>\nCould give them any Balm \u2014<\/p>\n<p>Or would they go on aching still<br \/>\nThrough Centuries of Nerve \u2014<br \/>\nEnlightened to a larger Pain \u2013<br \/>\nIn Contrast with the Love \u2014<\/p>\n<p>The Grieved \u2014 are many \u2014 I am told \u2014<br \/>\nThere is the various Cause \u2014<br \/>\nDeath \u2014 is but one \u2014 and comes but once \u2014<br \/>\nAnd only nails the eyes \u2014<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s Grief of Want \u2014 and Grief of Cold \u2014<br \/>\nA sort they call \u201cDespair\u201d \u2014<br \/>\nThere\u2019s Banishment from native Eyes \u2014<br \/>\nIn sight of Native Air \u2014<\/p>\n<p>And though I may not guess the kind \u2014<br \/>\nCorrectly \u2014 yet to me<br \/>\nA piercing Comfort it affords<br \/>\nIn passing Calvary \u2014<\/p>\n<p>To note the fashions \u2014 of the Cross \u2014<br \/>\nAnd how they\u2019re mostly worn \u2014<br \/>\nStill fascinated to presume<br \/>\nThat Some \u2014 are like My Own \u2014<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">*******************************************<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">The Looking Back on Grief (1862)<\/h3>\n<p>\u2018Tis good \u2014 the looking back on Grief \u2014<br \/>\nTo re-endure a Day \u2014<br \/>\nWe thought the Mighty Funeral \u2014<br \/>\nOf All Conceived Joy \u2014<\/p>\n<p>To recollect how Busy Grass<br \/>\nDid meddle \u2014 one by one \u2014<br \/>\nTill all the Grief with Summer \u2014 waved<br \/>\nAnd none could see the stone.<\/p>\n<p>And though the Woe you have Today<br \/>\nBe larger \u2014 As the Sea<br \/>\nExceeds its Unremembered Drop \u2014<br \/>\nThey\u2019re Water \u2014 equally \u2014<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">*********************************************<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Grief Is a Mouse (1863)<\/h3>\n<p>And chooses Wainscot in the Breast<br \/>\nFor His Shy House \u2014<br \/>\nAnd baffles quest \u2014<\/p>\n<p>Grief is a Thief \u2014 quick startled \u2014<br \/>\nPricks His Ear \u2014 report to hear<br \/>\nOf that Vast Dark \u2014<br \/>\nThat swept His Being \u2014 back \u2014<\/p>\n<p>Grief is a Juggler \u2014 boldest at the Play \u2014<br \/>\nLest if He flinch \u2014 the eye that way<br \/>\nPounce on His Bruises \u2014 One \u2014 say \u2014 or Three \u2014<br \/>\nGrief is a Gourmand \u2014 spare His luxury \u2014<\/p>\n<p>Best Grief is Tongueless \u2014 before He\u2019ll tell \u2014<br \/>\nBurn Him in the Public Square \u2014<br \/>\nHis Ashes \u2014 will<br \/>\nPossibly \u2014 if they refuse \u2014 How then know \u2014<br \/>\nSince a Rack couldn\u2019t coax a syllable \u2014 now.<\/p>\n<p>_________________________________________________________<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Emily-Dickinson-daguerreotype-circa-1847.jpg\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-186161\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Emily-Dickinson-daguerreotype-circa-1847-251x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"120\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Emily-Dickinson-daguerreotype-circa-1847-251x300.jpg 251w, https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Emily-Dickinson-daguerreotype-circa-1847.jpg 680w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 100px) 100vw, 100px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>Emily Elizabeth Dickinson was an American poet. Little-known during her life, she has since been regarded as one of the most important figures in American poetry. Dickinson was born in Amherst, Massachusetts into a prominent family with strong ties to its community. <\/em><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Emily_Dickinson\" >Wikipedia<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I Measure Every Grief I Meet (1862)<br \/>\nThe Looking Back on Grief (1862)<br \/>\nGrief Is a Mouse (1863)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":186161,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[182],"tags":[605,868],"class_list":["post-186160","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-poetry-format","tag-emotions","tag-poetry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/186160","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=186160"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/186160\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/186161"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=186160"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=186160"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=186160"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}