{"id":21312,"date":"2012-09-10T12:00:22","date_gmt":"2012-09-10T11:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=21312"},"modified":"2012-09-04T21:25:18","modified_gmt":"2012-09-04T20:25:18","slug":"conflict-resolution-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2012\/09\/conflict-resolution-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Conflict Resolution"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I perceive I\u2019ve been attacked<br \/>\nthere is a virtue that I\u2019ve lacked:<br \/>\nInstead of letting strife abate<br \/>\nI\u2019m eager to retaliate.<\/p>\n<p>I protest loudly and insist<br \/>\non trashing my antagonist.<\/p>\n<p>I rant about his grievous sins,<br \/>\nI make things worse and no one wins.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d like to find a better way<br \/>\nand hope that there will come a day<br \/>\nwhen people who conflict with me<br \/>\nwill learn to act more graciously.<\/p>\n<p>There is no need to clash and fight<br \/>\nif they will just concede I\u2019m right.<\/p>\n<p>____________________<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Tom Greening:<\/strong> \u201cI engage in five professional activities:<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Faculty Member at Saybrook University<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Private Practice of Psychotherapy<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Clinical Professor of Psychology, UCLA<\/em><br \/>\n<em> International Editor of the Journal of Humanistic Psychology<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Writing (Poetry).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I perceive I\u2019ve been attacked<br \/>\nthere is a virtue that I\u2019ve lacked:<br \/>\nInstead of letting strife abate<br \/>\nI\u2019m eager to retaliate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[182],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21312","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-poetry-format"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21312","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21312"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21312\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21312"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21312"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21312"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}