{"id":245529,"date":"2023-10-23T12:00:03","date_gmt":"2023-10-23T11:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=245529"},"modified":"2023-10-05T04:13:51","modified_gmt":"2023-10-05T03:13:51","slug":"how-to-own-your-weakness-alan-watts-on-the-confucian-concept-of-jen-and-the-dangers-of-self-righteousness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2023\/10\/how-to-own-your-weakness-alan-watts-on-the-confucian-concept-of-jen-and-the-dangers-of-self-righteousness\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Own Your Weakness: Alan Watts on the Confucian Concept of Jen and the Dangers of Self-Righteousness"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>A great tragedy of our time, this epoch of self-righteousness, is the zeal with which people would rather feel right than understand \u2014 the situation, the context, the motives and vulnerabilities behind the actions, the basic fact of the other.<\/p>\n

Growling beneath it all is an aversion to our own imperfections \u2014 we would rather look away and toward the faults of others than fully step into our own shadow and embrace it with light. In so segregating our own nature, we abdicate our wholeness and cease being fully human.<\/p>\n

How to rehumanize ourselves by owning our shadow is what Alan Watts<\/strong> (January 6, 1915\u2013November 16, 1973) examines in some wonderful passages from Tao: The Watercourse Way<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (public library<\/em><\/a>) \u2014 his final book, which he never fully finished before death took him one late-autumn day; it was posthumously published with the help of his friend Al Chung-liang Huang.<\/p>\n

Watts writes:<\/p>\n

At the head of all virtues Confucius put not righteousness (i<\/em>), but human-heartedness (jen<\/em>), which is not so much benevolence, as often translated, but being fully and honestly human.<\/p>\n

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A true human is not a model of righteousness, a prig or a prude, but recognizes that some failings are as necessary to genuine human nature as salt to stew.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

A generation before Parker Palmer urged in his magnificent commencement address<\/a> that you \u201ctake everything that\u2019s bright and beautiful in you and introduce it to the shadow side of yourself\u201d so that \u201cthe shadow\u2019s power is put in service of the good,\u201d Watts adds:<\/p>\n

Merely righteous people are impossible to live with because they have no humor, do not allow the true human nature to be, and are dangerously unconscious of their own shadows. Like all legalists and busybodies, they are trying to put the world on a Procrustean bed of linear regulations so that they are unable to make reasonable compromises.<\/p>\n

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Trust in human nature is acceptance of the good-and-bad of it, and it is hard to trust those who do not admit their own weakness.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Alan Watts, early 1970s.
Photograph courtesy of Everett Collection<\/p><\/div>

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(It is worth noting that Tao: The Watercourse Way<\/em><\/strong><\/a> was itself a way of admitting, and remedying, a human weakness on the scale of society \u2014 a decade before Ursula K. Le Guin so brilliantly unsexed the universal pronoun<\/a>, Watts becomes the first to propose, in a footnote, that the Confucian word jen<\/em>, which is ungendered in Chinese but has traditionally been translated into English as \u201cman-heartedness,\u201d instead be translated as \u201chuman-heartedness\u201d and that all instances of \u201cman\u201d as the universal pronoun be replaced with \u201chuman.\u201d)<\/p>\n

Complement with Joan Didion on learning not to mistake self-righteousness for morality<\/a> and the psychologist turned pioneering artist Anne Truitt on the cure for our chronic self-righteousness<\/a>, then revisit Watts on love and the only real antidote to fear<\/a>, happiness and how to live with presence<\/a>, the art of learning not to think in terms of gain or loss<\/a>, and the salve for our existential loneliness<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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\"\"<\/a> My name is <\/em>Maria Popova<\/em><\/a> \u2014 a reader, a wonderer, and a lover of reality who makes sense of the world and herself through the essential inner dialogue that is the act of writing. <\/em>The Marginalian<\/em> (which <\/em>bore the unbearable name <\/em>Brain Pickings<\/a> for its first 15 years) is my one-woman labor of love, exploring what it means to live a decent, inspired, substantive life of purpose and gladness. Founded in 2006 as a weekly email to seven friends, eventually brought online and now included in the Library of Congress permanent web archive, it is a record of my own becoming as a person \u2014 intellectually, creatively, spiritually, poetically \u2014 drawn from my extended marginalia on the search for meaning across literature, science, art, philosophy, and the various other tendrils of human thought and feeling. A private inquiry irradiated by the ultimate question, the great quickening of wonderment that binds us all: What is all this? (<\/em>More<\/em><\/a>\u2026) <\/em><\/p>\n

Go to Original \u2013 themarginalian.org<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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