{"id":274211,"date":"2024-09-23T12:00:41","date_gmt":"2024-09-23T11:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=274211"},"modified":"2024-09-19T06:07:25","modified_gmt":"2024-09-19T05:07:25","slug":"in-search-of-the-sacred-pico-iyer-on-our-models-of-paradise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2024\/09\/in-search-of-the-sacred-pico-iyer-on-our-models-of-paradise\/","title":{"rendered":"In Search of the Sacred: Pico Iyer on Our Models of Paradise"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/picoiyer_thehalfknownlife.webp\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-274212\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/picoiyer_thehalfknownlife-199x300.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/picoiyer_thehalfknownlife-199x300.webp 199w, https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/picoiyer_thehalfknownlife.webp 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a>\u201cThe mind is its own place, and in it self can make a Heav\u2019n of Hell, a Hell of Heav\u2019n,\u201d Milton wrote in his immortal <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2014\/02\/13\/william-blake-paradise-lost\/\" ><em>Paradise Lost<\/em><\/a>. With these human minds, arising from these material bodies, we keep trying to find heaven \u2014 to make heaven \u2014 in our myths and our mundanities, right here in the place where we are: in this beautiful and troubled world. We give it different names \u2014 eden, paradise, nirvana, poetry \u2014 but it springs from the selfsame longing: to dwell in beauty and freedom from suffering.<\/p>\n<p>With soulful curiosity channeled in his ever-lyrical prose, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/tag\/pico-iyer\/\" >Pico Iyer<\/a> chronicles a lifetime of pilgrimages to some of Earth\u2019s greatest shrines to that longing in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Half-Known-Life-Search-Paradise\/dp\/059342025X\/?tag=braipick-20\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>The Half Known Life: In Search of Paradise<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.worldcat.org\/title\/1337409127\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>He begins in Iran, replete with monuments to Omar Khayy\u0101m, who built \u201ca paradise of words\u201d with his poems while revolutionizing astronomy \u2014 a place of uncommon beauty and uncommon terror, with roots as deep as the history of the written word, and living branches as tangled as the most contradictory impulses of human nature:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>After years of travel, I\u2019d begun to wonder what kind of paradise can ever be found in a world of unceasing conflict \u2014 and whether the very search for it might not simply aggravate our differences. And the natural place to embark upon such an inquiry \u2014 should we discard the notion of heaven entirely? \u2014 seemed to be the culture that had given us both our word for paradise and some of our most soulful images of it.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In Jerusalem, he walks through the Damascus Gate to find himself in \u201csomething as irreducible as life.\u201d He visits the Himalayas and North Korea. As he travels, he is reminded of the seventeen years he spent at a Benedictine monastery in the mountains of California \u2014 an experience that forever imprinted him with the voice of inner stillness and the awareness that presence is the fundamental portal to the sacred:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Days, sometimes weeks, in the silence had given me a taste of what lies on the far side of our thoughts. Who we become \u2014 cease to become \u2014 when we put all ideas and theories behind us. I went often through pages of Thomas Merton there, but they seemed to belong to the cacophony below the stillness; the golden pampas grass in front of me, the dry hills beyond, the fleecy clouds stealing up the hillside \u2014 not what I thought about them \u2014 were the truth.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>He arrives at the oceanic idyll of Sri Lanka in the lull of ceasefire after twenty years of violent fighting between the separatists and the government, not long after a deadly tsunami devastated the island. Over and over, he finds himself contemplating the interplay of beauty and brutality, in nature and human nature, reading the solution to the riddle in the still stone countenances of the statues in a local temple:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The Buddhas\u2026 stared at me impassively. Onto the quiet faces in the sun I could project anything I needed. Our one task is to make friends with reality, I could imagine them whispering \u2014 which is to say, with impermanence and suffering and death; the unrest you feel will always have more to do with you than with what\u2019s around you. In one celebrated story, the Buddha had come upon a group of picnickers who were enraged because they\u2019d just been robbed. \u201cWhich,\u201d he\u2019d famously asked, \u201cis more important? To find the robbers or to find yourself?\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Walking through a cemetery in conflicted Kashmir, he thinks about the bygone people buried under the stone inscriptions, and about the mercy of being blind to our own fates:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I\u2019d long been drawn to graveyards in the places where cultures cross if only because headstones put every kind of division in its place.<\/p>\n<p>[\u2026]<\/p>\n<p>Few of them had probably seen what was coming: our lives can only be half known insofar as their final act, which seems to put all that has come before in place, is always hidden, and we seldom wish to think of it. We step out of the play with no chance to think back on it \u2014 and even as we\u2019re trying to make sense of life, things are shifting, falling away from us on every side. The older I got, the more I began to feel that almost everything that had happened to me, good or bad, seemed to have come out of nowhere. As Leonard Cohen, faithful for life to the Old Testament, put it in one of his final songs, we\u2019re \u201cnone of us deserving the cruelty or the grace.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/society6.com\/product\/liminal-days6358682_print?sku=s6-22687674p4a1v1?curator=brainpicker\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75327\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/LiminalDays_by_MariaPopova.jpg?resize=680%2C897&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/LiminalDays_by_MariaPopova.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/LiminalDays_by_MariaPopova.jpg?resize=320%2C422&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/LiminalDays_by_MariaPopova.jpg?resize=600%2C791&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/LiminalDays_by_MariaPopova.jpg?resize=240%2C317&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/LiminalDays_by_MariaPopova.jpg?resize=768%2C1013&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"897\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Liminal Days<\/em> by Maria Popova. (Available <a href=\"https:\/\/society6.com\/product\/liminal-days6358682_print?sku=s6-22687674p4a1v1?curator=brainpicker\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">as a print<\/a>.)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>He visits another cemetery atop the sacred mountain three hours from his home in Japan, accompanied by the poems of Emily Dickinson \u2014 that <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/05\/28\/emily-dickinson-grief\/\" >supreme patron saint of death<\/a>, who believed that \u201cwonder is not precisely knowing and not precisely knowing not.\u201d In consonance with poet Mark Doty\u2019s Whitman-fomented insistence that <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/09\/26\/whitman-love-death-doty\/\" >\u201ceven in the imagined paradise of limitless eros, there must be room for death,\u201d<\/a> Iyer arrives at the deepest yearning of our paradisal pursuits while walking the ghostly cemetery, aware that in the Japanese vision of an afterlife, the transience of things \u2014 the transience of us \u2014 is \u201cnot a cause for grief so much as a summons to attention.\u201d He reflects:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The thought that we must die, I might have heard the two hundred thousand graves saying, is the reason we must live well.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Half-Known-Life-Search-Paradise\/dp\/059342025X\/?tag=braipick-20\"  target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>The Half Known Life<\/em><\/strong><\/a> with Tolstoy\u2019s <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/08\/04\/leo-tolstoy-last-steps-death\/\" >vision of the afterlife<\/a> and Iyer on <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2019\/10\/11\/autumn-light-pico-iyer\/\" >finding beauty in impermanence and luminosity in loss<\/a>, then savor this poetic meditation on <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2020\/02\/03\/emily-levine-cold-solace-anna-belle-kaufman\/\" >how to live and how to die<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>_______________________________________<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/maria-popova-brain-pickings.jpeg\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-83590\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/maria-popova-brain-pickings-150x117.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"117\" \/><\/a> My name is <\/em><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/10\/22\/brain-pickings-becoming-the-marginalian\/\" ><em>Maria Popova<\/em><\/a><em> \u2014 a reader, a wonderer, and a lover of reality who makes sense of the world and herself through the essential inner dialogue that is the act of writing. <\/em><em>The Marginalian<\/em><em> (which <\/em><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/10\/22\/brain-pickings-becoming-the-marginalian\" ><em>bore the unbearable name <\/em>Brain Pickings<\/a><em> for its first 15 years) is my one-woman labor of love, exploring what it means to live a decent, inspired, substantive life of purpose and gladness. Founded in 2006 as a weekly email to seven friends, eventually brought online and now included in the Library of Congress permanent web archive, it is a record of my own becoming as a person \u2014 intellectually, creatively, spiritually, poetically \u2014 drawn from my extended marginalia on the search for meaning across literature, science, art, philosophy, and the various other tendrils of human thought and feeling. A private inquiry irradiated by the ultimate question, the great quickening of wonderment that binds us all: What is all this? (<\/em><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/about\/\" ><em>More<\/em><\/a><em>\u2026) <\/em><\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/02\/04\/pico-iyer-the-half-known-life\/?mc_cid=275d615d68\" >Go to Original \u2013 themarginalian.org<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With these human minds, arising from these material bodies, we keep trying to find heaven \u2014 to make heaven \u2014 in our myths and our mundanities, right here in the place where we are: in this beautiful and troubled world.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":83590,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[63],"tags":[120,801,106,1177,747,2638,805],"class_list":["post-274211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirational","tag-conflict","tag-consciousness","tag-god","tag-inspirational","tag-mind","tag-mystery","tag-spirituality"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/274211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=274211"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/274211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":274215,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/274211\/revisions\/274215"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83590"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=274211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=274211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=274211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}