{"id":69068,"date":"2016-01-25T12:00:28","date_gmt":"2016-01-25T12:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/?p=69068"},"modified":"2016-01-23T12:31:39","modified_gmt":"2016-01-23T12:31:39","slug":"relationships-reflections-on-refugees","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/2016\/01\/relationships-reflections-on-refugees\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationships \u2013 Reflections on Refugees"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>[Submitted by Mairead Maguire, Nobel Peace Laureate and member of the <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/\" >TRANSCEND Network<\/a><em>.]<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>19 Jan 2016 &#8211; <\/em>As I put together this photo journal of an Iraqi father and his dear son seeking asylum in Finland, I found renewed hope in relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships change our lives, and so, they change our world every day.<\/p>\n<p>As relationships are built on various aspects of love, they are powerful. If we build more and more relationships, they will be an alternative power to the abusive power of governments and corporations, and that\u2019s when governments and corporations will become more obvious in their efforts to sabotage relationships.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_69069\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Inham-part-of-the-generation-of-love.jpg\"  rel=\"attachment wp-att-69069\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-69069\" class=\"wp-image-69069\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Inham-part-of-the-generation-of-love.jpg\" alt=\"Inham, part of the generation of love\" width=\"400\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Inham-part-of-the-generation-of-love.jpg 667w, https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Inham-part-of-the-generation-of-love-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-69069\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Inham, part of the generation of love<\/p><\/div>\n<p>But, relationships are not an \u2018oppositional\u2019 power. They are invitational, and completely unarmed. Therefore, they will overcome, someday.<\/p>\n<p>Kathy Kelly, Cathy Breen, David Smith-Ferri, Bob Alberts ( U.S. peace activists with Voices for Creative Nonviolence ) and I visited Mohammad and Omar in Helsinki from the 7<sup>th<\/sup> to the 14<sup>th<\/sup> of Jan 2016.<\/p>\n<p>Being a friend of the Afghan Peace Volunteers, I was also grateful for a chance to briefly meet three Afghans. Gul Agha and his daughter, Zainab, are Finnish Afghans who were refugees 15 years ago. Jafar arrived in Finland just three months ago.<\/p>\n<p>We were hosted by Salla Nazarenko, the Executive Director of Physicians for Social Responsibility in Finland.<\/p>\n<p>First, a brief about how the individuals in this journal connected with one another.<\/p>\n<p>Kathy, Cathy, and David have been to Iraq at various times since 1996 as part of Voices for Creative Nonviolence\u2019s work to resist U.S. economic sanctions and wars in Iraq, and at different times over those visits, they got to know Iraqi mechanical engineer Mohammad, now 46 years old, and his son, Omar, who turns 18 on the 19<sup>th<\/sup> of Jan. Bob Alberts has been supporting the work of Voices for Creative Nonviolence over the past few years. Kathy and David have visited me and the Afghan Peace Volunteers in Kabul many times since 2010.<\/p>\n<p>Mohammad and Omar fled Iraq\u2019s U.S.-driven sectarian war as refugees to Europe and arrived in Finland on the 20<sup>th<\/sup> of September 2015, after a harrowing two-month trip over land and sea.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_69070\" style=\"width: 710px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Mohammad-an-Iraqi-refugee-friend-remembers-crossing-the-Mediterranean-Sea.jpg\"  rel=\"attachment wp-att-69070\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-69070\" class=\"wp-image-69070\" src=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Mohammad-an-Iraqi-refugee-friend-remembers-crossing-the-Mediterranean-Sea.jpg\" alt=\"Mohammad, an Iraqi refugee friend, remembers crossing the Mediterranean Sea\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Mohammad-an-Iraqi-refugee-friend-remembers-crossing-the-Mediterranean-Sea.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Mohammad-an-Iraqi-refugee-friend-remembers-crossing-the-Mediterranean-Sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.transcend.org\/tms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Mohammad-an-Iraqi-refugee-friend-remembers-crossing-the-Mediterranean-Sea-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-69070\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mohammad, an Iraqi refugee friend, remembers crossing the Mediterranean Sea<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Salla Nazarenko, who lives in Finland with two daughters, Ilse and Amanda, had written to Cathy after reading Cathy\u2019s article on Mohammad and Omar.<\/p>\n<p>Each person has family and friends who colour these friendships, pencils, water colours, oils, crayons\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Our recent war and peace story<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After many empires, of different names ( ethnicities ) and continents over many centuries, and while the British and Russian empires seemed head-strong, World War I broke out.<\/p>\n<p>It was not what it was meant to be, the \u2018war to end all wars\u2019. Though human resolve to \u2018remove the scourge of war from future generations\u2019 did grow, as stated in the 1945 post-WWII UN Charter, one of many Cold Wars ensued, and militarism became normal.<\/p>\n<p>Today, new \u2018types\u2019 of military wars, along with economic and environmental wars, are fueled by the power and money interests of an increasingly small percentage of elites. Where \u2018war\u2019 isn\u2019t a convenient word, \u2018R2P\u2019, \u2018kinetic action\u2019 and other names pacify us, more like, \u2018maintain\u2019 us.<\/p>\n<p>The people suffer.<\/p>\n<p>Very large numbers of people.<\/p>\n<p>In 2015, mainly to escape wars, a record 59.5 million human beings were refugees, 86% of them seeking refuge and\/or asylum in \u2018developing\u2019 countries, and only 14% in developed countries, including Europe.<\/p>\n<p>The top five origins of refugees who have applied for asylum in Europe are Syria, Afghanistan, Kosovo, Iraq and Albania.<\/p>\n<p>The top five EU countries in terms of asylum applications per 100,000 local ( EU ) population are Hungary, Sweden, Austria, Finland and Germany.<\/p>\n<p>httpv:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=yy6RIJbHPoc&amp;feature=youtu.be<\/p>\n<p>All these figures say practically nothing about the number of relationships involved in and affected by what must be one of the largest, nonviolent people movements in history, people choosing not to fight, but to take the risk of running away from what the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees reported as our \u2018world at war\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Crowds, especially at travel stations, literally cross one another\u2019s paths, but we don\u2019t converse. We seem only to be able to handle input on the digital screen, not face-to-face. Even \u2018at war\u2019, we no longer wish to fight face-to-face; as far as possible, we do the killing remotely.<\/p>\n<p>Some of us are even \u2018at war\u2019 with those \u2018fleeing war\u2019. We are wrapped up, working hard to make a living, so we are no longer able to question and address the root causes of human conflict. We presume that the war-refugees are running away from wars caused by the refugees themselves! Irrationally, we \u2018feel\u2019 that refugees are as dangerous as the \u2018ISIS, Al Qaeda or Taliban extremists\u2019 they are fleeing from.<\/p>\n<p>Our vision is limited to our screens and ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>But there is hope, re-ignited when we take a minute to call on the power of relationships, in asking one another, \u201cDo you miss your family or friends?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAre you hurting?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/enough.ourjourneytosmile.com\/wordpress\/relationships-reflections-on-refugees\/\" >Continue reading Go to Original \u2013 enough.ourjourneytosmile.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As relationships are built on various aspects of love, they are powerful. 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